Such as it is, the Holiday Season is about to begin. Their are a series of different approaches to it and in the last few years no real start time. There are the revelers who look forward to the season, decorating their homes and flooding facebook with their joy.
Then there are mild cases of BA Humbug. The holiday rule Nazis some call them. They patrol to ensure Nativity Scenes are on private property only. Those who want to determine what is acceptable and what is not. Some crusade against outdoor decorations before Remembrance Day.
With the advent of social media there is the push to say Merry Christmas instead of Happy Holidays and insinuate there is an effort to persecute those who say Merry Christmas. There is some mysterious dark force behind the promotion of Happy Holidays they hint, and end with “I say Merry Christmas and you should too.” this is going to enlighten some confuse others and put a wet blanket on those who hint at some conspiracy or dark force and as some characterize it We are to use Happy Holidays so we don’t offend immigrants of one sect or another.
So, where and when did the Merry Christmas—Happy Holiday controversy begin? It will surprise many. During the 1500’s the old English word morphed into the word Christmas and from there Merry Christmas became the traditional greeting. But there is more to this than meets the eye. Before rendering the best saved for last, lets explore how we got into the war of words.
As with everything else our society has become polarized, our social views, our politics and even our economics. The more conservative voices tend to be more faith based and cling to tradition, where as those in the makeup of more broader based liberal view tend to say Happy Holidays. This overview was part of a survey from 2016 conducted by the Public Religion Research Institute. Even in the polarized world we have there is no evidence of a sinister plot by anyone.
So what is the history behind the two greetings that are to bring greetings of hope and joy that become the words of angst. Here is the first curve ball. Remember I mentioned the greeting Merry Christmas was adapted from an old English word? That word was Cristes Maesse. Or as we would say, The Mass of Christ. These terms go back in Old English to the year 1038. So, Merry Christmas is the official greeting right? Well not so fast there is more. Ready for a head spinner?
The word Holiday arrived in the 1500’s and it came from the Old English word “hailiday”which came from the word “haligdaed” and that word meant Holy Day.
But wait for both sides being right and wrong there is more. In more recent times there is a more modern history of how we came to be yelling rejected greetings as polarized insults.
So how and why did Happy Holidays become popular? Look back down the road of history to 1863 when the words were prominently displayed in the Philadelphia Inquirer.
In the twentieth century Happy Holidays were connected to gift giving of tobacco products by RJ Reynolds to promote Winston Salem Tobacco products as presents. Happy Holidays morphed into “Seasons Greeting” in the 1940’s primarily promoting Camel cigarettes.
By the late forties seasons greetings, happy holidays and Merry Christmas came with Coca-Cola Santa Clause, elves, Christmas Trees and all the glitz and glitter we can stuff into a few weeks.
So Merry Christmas stands for the Holy Greeting of the season. Happy Holidays comes from Holy Days and in some traditions it is the meaning of Advent and ends with the Epiphany.
So before we get our ugly Christmas Sweater in a knot, you are all right even if you don’t know you’re right. So while you contemplate this information I am going to open my Christmas Holiday fashion box with everything from my Santa Hat my Grinch T Shirt, Elf Slippers and my prized Merry Christmas From Folsom Prison pullover sweater and get in the spirit of whatever greeting you address me with.
Fred Steele
Bonnie Thompson says
Thanks for the info. I think a lot of people take offense to Happy Holidays because they were told it was offensive to some immigrant and as a young country in comparison to others around the world had fewer traditions and want to hang on to those we have. This doesn’t mean they have to give up their traditions, they are welcome to join in with ours and vice versa.
Publisher: Let me rant Bonnie.
Your response a bit vanilla.
Not sure when Christ born or died
But – Christmas I thought was a religious holy day – when the birth of Christ was celebrated.
Yes both Easter, the death and Xmas the birth taken over by the Madison Ave firms of the 50’s.
So the grinch and Santa Claus took over the Christ-mas celebration and the Bunny took over the crucifixion, the rolling of the stone, the meeting with the disciples and the re birth of the spirit….
I think these two concepts can not get along. It is one way or the other.
Happy Holidays could be Ramadan, Diwali etc.
That is all well and good
But if you are a Christian – Merry Holiday or Happy Something does not ring true.
Giving, charity, sharing – should be what we are talking about
Knights of Columbus – food drive
Oliver Food Bank – sharing and caring
Desert Sun – looking out for those in need
How can you help ??
Fred Steele says
Easter is a whole other story which I will get to at the right time. These holidays are compatible I have may friend of different faiths Everyone of them respects the others traditions
Carolyn Tipler says
Good one Mr. Steele. I have noticed that many of those in the country of my birth use the term Happy Christmas which incidently I don’t remember doing but 54 years is a longtime. I decided to check it out and got quite a laugh out of this explanation:
Why do Brits say Happy Christmas instead of Merry Christmas?
For starters, it’s important to note that “Happy Christmas” hasn’t faded completely—it’s still widely used in England. This is believed to be because “happy” took on a higher class connotation than “merry,” which was associated with the rowdiness of the lower classes.Aug 18, 2020.
Maybe a picture of you in the Merry Christmas from Folsom Prison sweater for next weeks column?